By Todd Kaufmann
Delicate…vulnerable…soft…precious…AMAZING
These were words I was using earlier today as I got to be a part of welcoming into the world the first child of one of my close friends. She was 7 pounds of gorgeous.
So small, so soft, so delicate, but yet so absolutely perfect.
The moment I held her there was something that happened inside of me. God was teaching me a lesson. Even the smallest thing and the most sacred of moments, a lesson was being taught.
Never underestimate the power inside you.
When labor began for his wife, she was given an epidural that never kicked in meaning she felt every bit of her daughter making her way into the world. When it was over, the mom said something that has been ringing in my ears even as I sit here and write this.
When asked how she was doing she responded, “I feel like I can do anything.”
She had been through 8 hours and 33 minutes of excrutiating pain. In the end, she received the greatest gift of all. She held her daughter for the very first time. A moment no mother ever forgets. But it also made her realize that she was stronger than she gave herself credit for. The strength she never thought she had God made her realize she absolutely does have it and He proved it in a painful, yet incredible way.
I know one day I’ll be a father. I know I don’t know what my buddy is going through or the feelings that are running through his heart as he stares down at his daughter wrapped tightly in a blanket, but I know when that day comes God will be teaching me even more lessons.
So I held that little girl and I stared into her eyes, God reminded me that no matter how much I feared the day I stare into my own daughter’s eyes, not knowing what to do next, the power and strength inside me comes from Him.
He never gives us more than we can handle.
Lesson learned.